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Having an anal orgasm compared to a more traditional ejaculating orgasm? The emotional connection I feel with my partner submitting myself to him, and completely letting go of my ego, it does not get any more natural and desirable than this. I concerned myself with the social construct that can often be embedded in gay cultural where the top is perceived to be the old and the bottom the woman.

Read a book, scroll TikTok, or find your gay school enemy on. I simply find the experience as a bottom to be more enjoyable and more rewarding. Even though there is more required of me to prepare before engaging in sex, the additional work is far outweighed by the additional pleasure experienced.

So in the end, when all is said and done, I can proudly say that for me, it's all about bottoming. I'm glad that you have been able to accept yourself for who you are. OnTheHighway Guest. Take your time! Top, bottom, or vers? Glad you feel no more pressure.

I have only used toys but you bet your bottom dollar anal orgasms are out of this bottom I can now accept myself as I need to, as a bottom. ‍ Shower ‍ At minimum, go to the bathroom and get everything “out”. You are a man no matter what.

All the while I always found more pleasure bottoming and struggled to perform as a top, Well, as time has gone by, I have concluded that I simply enjoy bottoming more than topping. ‍ Preparing to bottom ‍ Successful bottoming doesn’t start in the bedroom.

At the same time, I have also concluded that doing one compared with another does not make me any more or less of a man. Fibre, anal training and techniques like douching can all play a part. While I will continue to top every now and then, I no longer feel any pressure of having to top.

The two are like comparing night and day; I would take an anal orgasm over a traditional one any time of day! The elements you choose will come down to your diet, anatomy and personal preference. Contrary to their physical positions, for the " top, bottom, and versatile " sexual position, the man lying on his back is said ragnar lothbrok gay be in the "top position" and the other man is said to be in the "bottom position" In human sexuality, top, bottom, and versatile are roles during sexual activity, especially between two (or more) males.

It's an age-old question that has puzzled many people for thousands of years. However, a lot of my straight friends still think in those terms and I've had to explain more than once that it's really not the case. Learn More. Here's how being a gay bottom went from a simple preference during anal sex to a whole new set of cultural signifiers (Lana Del Rey included).

I have posted quite a bit in this section over the years about my different perspectives of topping versus bottoming. Empty Closets. Having begun actively living as an openly gay man four years ago, I started with the notion that topping was masculine and Bottoming was not.

I enjoy Bottoming - that's all there is to it! I'm versatile as well, but I enjoy topping more. Thread Tools Thread Tools. I concerned myself with the social construct that can often be embedded in gay cultural where the top is perceived to be the man and the bottom the woman.

It's interesting that you compare it to masculinity because I've never thought about it that way. Having begun actively living as an openly gay man four years ago, I started with the notion that topping was masculine and Bottoming was not.