Gay sex vs straight sex

For gay guys, unless it's already been discussed through some sort of telepathy, there are a whole bunch of homosexual boxes that need to be checked off before sex can even remotely commence. Sometimes, if sex guys just aren't compatible, or aren't willing to switch it up every once in a while, things like your dick can go soft real fast.

That is, unless you've just consumed an unhealthy amount of Indian food. It's basically like, put it in my butt or you're not putting it anywhere at all. How would I know? When a straight man has sex, it's absurdly different from when a gay man has sex.

I'm a fast learner, so. How would I know? For the gays, it's a whole different story. Because once upon a time, I was into girls, and I had sex with one, too! While that is possible for gays, there's usually some sort of time taken to physically prepare your body for penetration.

I'm not saying that's necessarily a bad thing because prostate stimulation can be mighty fine if done rightbut it's a similar feeling as walking into McDonalds and only being able to order a McChicken every single time. I mean, I may not have really known what I was doing, but I was aware there was a hole Fast forward to years later, I'm as gay as the day is long, and I'm witnessing sex from a whole other side of the spectrum.

Because once upon a time, I was into girls, and I had sex with one, too! Do you like to keep things interesting and be versatile? And, as fond of penis as I am, sometimes I just can't help but be envious of all my macho guy friends and the casual, nonchalant straight sex they're able to have.

Sex for guys, at least as a frequent bottom, requires an annoying amount of planning. Are you more submissive or are you into taking control? You see, a butt is not only tight, but it's probably just as dry as California during a drought.

In my conversations with other gay and bisexual friends, I have found that each and every one of them has at least one gay story where a straight man was involved. In that case, sex is going to have to wait. Yet I love straight sex 🤷‍♀️ (I’ve barely had any gay sex but I really want to change that!) Now sex sex scenes in a movie or show where I’m very invested in the characters are pretty hot (outlander being the prime example) much hotter than porn because it’s so fake.

If two straight people want to have sex, they're going to do it. When a straight man has sex, it's absurdly different from when a gay man has sex. I'm a fast learner, so I was able to work my way around a vagine pretty easily. Contrary to conventional wisdom, in terms of straight desire, communication, and satisfaction, people in homo- and heterosexual couples are much more similar than different.

Are you a power top or are you a whiny bottom? For regular ol' couples, vaginal penetration is the obvious go-to for sex, while dabbling with anal is more a luxury. Spontaneity will never be a thing. Spontaneous sex: a dream for a straight couple, a nightmare for the gays.

When things heat up between a guy and a girl, it's common sense which of the two will be on the receiving end of a dick. Lube — no matter what the base oil — is essential when it comes to gay sex because if it's not used, bottoming is going to feel like gay sex with foreskin is literally ripping you apart.

Whether it'd in a bed, a party, or a park bathroom, they'll make it happen.